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Why parties to a mediation deserve a medal

It is becoming more and more accepted that mediation offers considerable benefits to the parties involved. However some organisations are still struggling to justify the business case given the lack of empirical data. This is an area that CMP Resolutions is particularly interested in, and would like to present a case study looking at five different organisations and how they have quantified the return on investment mediation has given them. A case study: How mediation works for five organisations.

Thank you, all you parties who said yes to mediation.

Thank you for having the courage to try something new, for having hope for a better future. Thank you for believing that mediation could hardly make things worse, and might make things much better.

When someone suggested mediation, you didn’t say no because your desire to punish the other was greater than your hope for resolution. You agreed, even though you were doubtful and anxious. And when the day of the mediation arrived there you were: a little shaky, a little defensive, but you showed up.

You’re heroic. You’re one in a hundred, one in a thousand. Not because you had a conflict – that’s easy, there’s no credit in that – but because you wanted to do something constructive, to take an active part in getting yourself a less stressful life.

It takes guts to agree to mediate

It takes guts to face the person you blame for your churning stomach and dry mouth, for your sleepless nights and inability to concentrate. It takes faith in other people, to sit in a room with someone you fear is out to get you.  So I watch you in a mediation and I’m in awe. At the tough emotional and psychological work you do; the way you try to understand what seems incomprehensible. The way you find ways to express yourself so that you can be heard. The creativity and energy you put into finding solutions is humbling.

So here’s to you. Here’s a gold medal for your compassion and forgiveness, your understanding and insight. And here’s to your future, not without conflict but with a new way of resolving it.  It is you, the parties, that make mediation matter,  and it people like you who keep my faith in humanity.  So thank you, each and every one of you, who came, who talked, and who concurred.

 

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